It's always a good idea to take a few moments to review your thoughts. Are they positive? Do you convey enthusiasm and excitement? Are are you fatigued and frustrated from your long job search?
Whatever is going on in your mind is being conveyed to potential employers whether you realize it or not. You may believe that you are better than anyone at hiding your true feelings, but it's important to realize that they will shine through during the interview process. They might come through in your tone, your energy level or the way you describe a past employer. If you believe you have been treated unfairly in the past, it will show up in your responses unless you do some work to let the past injustice go and move forward in a positive direction.
You might want to ask a trusted friend to give you some honest feedback. It will be well worth the discomfort it may cause for you to see how you are coming across to others and taking steps to improve those impressions.
Have you ever felt like you were getting more of what you don't want and less of what you do want out of life? Have you felt that the more you resist something, the more you seem to attract it? Carl Jung said "what you resist persists". Why is this? It happens because we are giving a lot of energy and thought to the very things we want to avoid. Try shifting your focus and concentrate on putting your energy and positive thoughts toward what you do want in your life. Then watch and see what happens....you can live the life you have imagined!
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Within each of us lies the potential to do great things. For most of us, the right tools are all we need. With them, we can discover the work we were meant to do. My passion is helping others design and create the lives they have only imagined.